Saturday, March 28, 2009

Don't read this unless you're ambitious!

Hi Everyone,

A good friend of mine Theresa Puskar (infomercial hostess extraordinaire) gave me something that has become a most cherished gift. In fact, I see and read it everyday.



















She took a quote from Theodore Roosevelt and put it in a beautiful frame. What made the gift extra special is that she said I exemplified the quote.



















Theodore Roosevelt

Here it is verbatim.

The credit belongs to the man...
who is actually in the arena...
who strives valiantly...
who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions...
and spends himself in a worthy cause...
who at best, know the triumph of high achievement; and...
who, at the worst, if he fails...
at least fails daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with
those cold and timid souls...
who know neither victory nor defeat.

Powerful words.

Like most people, I do not see myself the way others do, and I'll say that I see no reason to live the life of a wallflower. To me that is what loser's do.

I do not believe you or I were put here to waste away in the background or to sit on the sidelines of the great game of life. You're either a player or not.

Remember, there is no perfect time to do what it is you want to do.

- If you want to start a business - start it!
- If you want to raise a family - start it!
- If you want to change your financial plan - start it!
- If you want to be a better spouse - start it!
- If you want to find a better relationship - start it!

You get the point!!!! Whatever you want to do - start it! And don't give me the "my situation is different" or "it's too complicated." That's loser speak! Just another excuse. There's always a way if you're committed. (You know it and I know it - so let's cut the B.S. here and now.)

What are you waiting for? Yesterday is gone and tomorrow never exists. Whether you want to think about it or not - you could die today. Then what?

Personally, I've never run from a worthwhile challenge. That has netted me some great results - contrary to the useless advice of my critics.

In fact, I have to laugh. I can still remember my guidance counselor in high school giving me what turned out to be some of the most useless advice on planet earth. Pretty much everything he told me ended up false. Thankfully, I was a rebellious person then as I am now. I believe in marching to the beat of my own drummer. After all, whose life is this anyway? It's certainly not my families, my wife's, my friend's or anyone elses.

I want to close this blog, whether useful to you or not, with one of my favorite poems. One I live my life by everyday.

It is called ONLY A PERSON WHO RISKS IS FREE by Author Unknown. (I've posted it before and here it is again.)

Here it is my friend...

To laugh is to risk appearing the fool.
To weep is to risk appearing sentimental.
To reach for another is to risk involvement.
To expose your ideas, your dreams, before a crowd is to risk their loss.
To love is to risk not being loved in return.
To live is to risk dying.
To believe is to risk despair.
To try is to risk failure.
But risks must be taken, because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing.
The people who risk nothing, do nothing, have nothing, are nothing.
They may avoid suffering and sorrow, but they cannot learn, feel, change, grow, love, live.
Chained by their attitudes they are slaves; they have forfeited their freedom.
Only a person who risks is free.

If you are not taking the chances you know deep down you need to, you have nobody to blame but yourself for your results.

Don't waste time crying to your spouse, family members, friends or anyone else. They likely already know that you are not doing anything but whining and they likely are sick of listening to you. If you don't believe me, think of the reaction you have to a friend or family member who does it to you!

Bottom line: Get off your rear and do something instead of pissing, whining and moaning to others. WE DON'T CARE!

In the end, only you can do what you need to do.

Now onto more interesting things...

Make sure and watch for the new audio versions of...

- Negotiate Your Way to Riches
- Buying Secrets Retailer's DON'T Want You To Know About

Both being released in the next four weeks on Audible.com and iTunes.

Also, I'm making progress on my new book - will be done this Summer. Details to follow!

Spending the rest of the day working on my new book while my wife is with my niece at some show about "Dora The Explorer." (Whatever that is.)

Gotta run - much to do!

Until next time...
Peter
http://www.peterwink.com/

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Saturday, March 07, 2009

How big are you REALLY thinking?

Hi Everyone,

Just back from Canada after facilitating an "Everything's Negotiable" workshop for ALL the procurement specialists for ALL Canada's major universities.

Great time and glad to be back home!

I was just thumbing through one of my favorite books of all time...

"The Magic of Thinking Big" by the legendary Dr. David J. Schwartz.



















In this book, he discusses what is called "Excusitis."

The disease of failure.

You know people who suffer from this, as they always have an excuse for everything that goes wrong and naturally it is never their own fault. (They blame their spouses, parents, kids, bosses, friends, neighbors, colleagues, the list goes on and on and on.)

I may be a little rough on people (like I am myself), but I have to admit, I cannot take much of these people. 99.9% of the time these people do not even truly want help - it is much easier to stay infected by "Excusitis" and use it to fall back on as they fail miserably in their lives.

What most people fail to realize that the ONE constant in all these relationships and scenarios is themselves. (Does that help you get a clue?)

I recently was doing some research online on success and failure, and came across an article that was fascinating by The Kenmarc Company called...

Excusitis – The disease that undermines achievement

Here is is verbatim...


Excusitis – The disease that undermines achievement.


Are you suffering from ''Excusitis"? Excusitis is the “If only …” disease.

SYMPTOMS

If only I had more money; If only I had a better education; If only I were healthier;
If only I were younger; If only I were older; If only I were luckier; If only I were
brought up in a different family; If only I didn’t have a problem spouse. This is the
mental process a victim of this thought-disease goes through.

Like all diseases, Excusitis grows worse if it is not treated properly. Typically, the
victims are unaware that they are suffering from the disease. The very nature of
Excusitis is to produce the mind-deadening thought, "I am not doing as well as I should. What can I use as an alibi that will help me save face?”

Once the victim of this disease has selected a "good" excuse, he lives with it. Then he relies on it to explain to himself and to others why he is not going forward. And each time the victim makes the excuse; the excuse becomes imbedded deeper within his sub-conscious mind.

At first the victim of Excusitis knows his alibi is more or less a lie. But the more
frequently he repeats it, the more convinced he becomes that it is completely true, and that the alibi is the real reason for his not being the success he should be. Thoughts, positive or negative, grow stronger when fertilized with constant repetition.

PERSCRIPTION

To be successful, one must cure the disease that causes failure, Excusitis. To cure it, a proven prescription is required. Fortunately, the prescription exists; it is the emotional antioxidant, “Optimistic Response.”

It is widely known that certain antioxidants found in foods, notably leafy vegetables have a positive impact on the immune system by dramatically reducing risks of cancers as well as other diseases. For this reason, antioxidant vitamins are the most popular and universally respected nutritional supplements.

The Optimistic Response, on the other hand, is a positive visualization process, that manufactures the emotional antioxidant inside the mind, and then pumps it through the bloodstream, and throughout the entire body!

What exactly is the Optimistic Response? Simply stated, Optimistic Response is a habitual way of constructively explaining individual personal setbacks. It is a simple method of thinking and continually re-programming the self-image to yield comprehensive benefits. This approach to thinking heightens the immunity to negative and detrimental influences of all kinds, both physical and mental.

EXCUSITIS vs. OPTIMISTIC RESPONSE

People with “Excusitis” habitually blame undesirable experiences or outcomes on permanent conditions. For example, someone who delivers a speech badly, stumbles over words, and is not well received then says to his or her self-image: 'I'm just not good at speaking in front of groups. 'This turns the unpleasant incident into a permanent condition. The self-image will subsequently turn this into an instruction given to the individual every time this person steps to a podium to deliver a talk – self-fulfilling prophecy.

People that on the prescription “Optimistic Response” acknowledge the existence of a permanent disadvantage but only very reluctantly, and only in the face of overwhelming evidence, so, in the same situation, he or she would be more likely to say to the self-image: 'I did not succeed with my speech, but I can learn to do better the next time. 'Then would go ahead and evaluate how he or she was introduced, organized material, spoke, used humor, dress, and so on, in search of ways to be better and do better. This is the habit of “Optimistic Response” in action.

HABIT OF OPTIMISTIC RESPONSE

1. When you feel frustrated-STOP! Ask yourself if you are giving the power of permanence to something that can be changed. Are you struggling with an unpleasant incident, a temporary set of circumstances, or a permanent condition? Rarely will you be able to support the notion of a permanent condition.

2. Tell your self-image: 'I can figure this out."

3. Remind your self-image of your past achievements that indicate you can figure this out, that you can do better in this situation.

4. Be alert for behavior patterns, doing the same thing the same way, when doing so has been producing unsatisfactory results. Break the pattern!

One Common Sense Truism™ states, “An excuse is never as good as a result”. Utilizing the magic of the Optimistic Response, one cannot only cure the disease of Excusitis, but to achieve virtually unlimited success in any aspect of life.

WOW! Tough stuff! Well maybe not.

Change really can happen in an instant - you just have to decide what you really want obsessively - make the decision that you are moving forward no matter what the consequences - you will make no more excuses - and take small or large steps everyday toward what you want.

And if this does not work for you - go on being miserable. Just stop complaining to others about it - because in the end - NOBODY cares or feels sorry for someone not willing to help themselves.

Enough on that.

Make sure and watch for the new audio versions of...

- Negotiate Your Way to Riches
- Buying Secrets Retailer's DON'T Want You To Know About

Both being released in the next four weeks on Audible.com and iTunes.

Also, I'm making progress on my new book - will be done this Summer. Details to follow!

Getting ready to spend four days with Dr. Joe Vitale, strategizing in a top secret location. Maybe here in Chicago! Maybe near you! You never know.

Gotta run - much to do!

Until next time...
Peter
http://www.peterwink.com/

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Sunday, February 22, 2009

Dr. Jon Bon Jovi on success?

Hi Everyone,

I admit it! I've been a big Bon Jovi fan since the mid-80s.



















I recently came across a speech he gave (after receiving his honorary Doctorate of Humanities degree) at the Monmouth University commencement in West Long Branch, N.J. Wednesday, May 16, 2001.



















This speech is like a blueprint for success in any endeavor. It also is a humbling reminder that in the end, we are all equal.

You can read it here. Enjoy!

All right enough on that.

Special announcement time...

My new audio book "Science of Being Well" from Gildan Media is now available on Audible.com. You can get it here.

It will be on iTunes shortly.

Also, watch for the new audio versions of...

- Negotiate Your Way to Riches
- Buying Secrets Retailer's DON'T Want You To Know About

Both being released in the next four weeks on Audible.com and iTunes.

Gotta run - much to do!

Until next time...
Peter
http://www.peterwink.com/

PS...To get a copy of "Buying Secrets Retailers DON'T Want You to Know About" - please click here.

PPS...To get a copy of my bestselling book "Negotiate Your Way to Riches" - please click here.

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Saturday, February 07, 2009

To hell with fear!

Hi Everyone,

Did you know that living in fear, or as it is so well put, "fight or flight" is so debilitating that it shuts down your proper breathing mechanisms and stymies digestion in an instant? It also keeps you from accomplishing anything.

Yikes!

So I have to ask you my friend, "Why live in fear?" If you think about it, 95% of your fears never even materialize. And need I remind you that life is not a dress rehearsal? Yesterday means nothing and tomorrow never comes! Get my drift?

People used to always ask me how I was able to always be so good with the ladies in my earlier years. Well...I don't exactly look like Brad Pitt and I'm not what I term the quintessential charmer - but I have one quality that has served me better than any personally and professionally - I have no fear of rejection nor it's outcome. I just asked more women out and than ANY of my friends. Some said "yes" - and "some said "no!" That's about as complicated as meeting girls was to me.

Everything in life is a numbers game! Everything.

I have a little book that I keep no farther than 10 feet away from me when I'm working called...

I Can't Accept Not Trying: Michael Jordan on the Pursuit of Excellence
by (you guessed it) Michael Jordan, former Chicago Bulls star.



















The book is amazing and I flip through it often. It is only 36 pages - but man o' man is it powerful when it comes to teaching you how to eliminate your fears.

You can get it here.

Here's one of my favorite passages from Michael...

"I realized that if I was going to achieve anything in life I had to be aggressive. I had to get out there and go for it. I don't believe you can achieve anything by being passive. I know fear is an obstacle for some people, but it as an illusion to me.

Once I'm in there, I'm not thinking about anything except what I'm trying to accomplish. Any fear is an illusion. You think something is standing in your way, but nothing is really there. What is there is an opportunity to do your best and gain some success."

He's basically repeating the old saying...

"You have nothing to fear but fear itself.

All right enough on that.

Special announcement time...

My new audio book "Science of Being Well" from Gildan Media is now available on Audible.com. You can get it here.

It will be on iTunes shortly.

Also, watch for the new audio versions of...

- Negotiate Your Way to Riches
- Buying Secrets Retailer's DON'T Want You To Know About

Both being released in the next four weeks on Audible.com and iTunes.

So, if you're living in fear...

Stop whining, griping and moaning. In reality, nobody cares. Start with MJ's book if nothing else.

Gotta run - much to do!

Until next time...
Peter
http://www.peterwink.com/

PS...To get a copy of "Buying Secrets Retailers DON'T Want You to Know About" - please click here.

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Saturday, January 17, 2009

The Law of Detachment and how to use it!

Hi Everyone,

I was inspired to share this with you today. It describes my favorite spiritual law and it is written so well - I did not edit anything.

Enjoy!

The Law Of Detachment
By: Deepak Chopra















The sixth spiritual law of success is the Law of Detachment. The Law of Detachment says that in order to acquire anything in the physical universe, you have to relinquish your attachment to it. This doesn't mean you give up the intention to create your desire. You don't give up the intention, and you don't give up the desire. You give up your attachment to the result.

This is a very powerful thing to do. The moment you relinquish your attachment to the result, combining one-pointed intention with detachment at the same time, you will have that which you desire. Anything you want can be acquired through detachment,
because detachment is based on the unquestioning belief in the power of your true Self.

Attachment, on the other hand, is based on fear and insecurity and the need for security is based on not knowing the true Self. The source of wealth, of abundance, or of anything in the physical world is the Self; it is the consciousness that knows
how to fulfill every need. Everything else is a symbol: cars, houses, bank notes, clothes, or airplanes. Symbols are transitory; they come and go. Chasing symbols is like settling for the map instead of the territory. It creates anxiety; it ends up making you feel hollow and empty inside, because you exchange your Self for the symbols of your Self.

Attachment comes from poverty consciousness, because attachment is always to symbols. Detachment is synonymous with wealth consciousness, because with detachment there is freedom to create. Only from detached involvement can one have joy and laughter. Then the symbols of wealth are created spontaneously and effortlessly. Without detachment we are prisoners of helplessness, hopelessness, mundane needs, trivial concerns, quiet desperation, and seriousness the distinctive features of everyday mediocre existence and poverty consciousness.

True wealth consciousness is the ability to have anything you want, anytime you want, and with least effort. To be grounded in this experience you have to be grounded in the wisdom of uncertainty. In this uncertainty you will find the freedom to create anything you want.

People are constantly seeking security, and you will find that seeking security is actually a very ephemeral thing. Even attachment to money is a sign of insecurity. You might say, "When I have X million dollars, then I'll be secure. Then I'll be financially independent and I will retire. Then I will do all the things I really want to do." But it never happens never happens.

Those who seek security chase it for a lifetime without ever finding it. It remains elusive and ephemeral, because security can never come from money alone. Attachment to money will always create insecurity no matter how much money you have in the bank.
In fact, some of the people who have the most money are the most insecure.

The search for security is an illusion. In ancient wisdom traditions, the solution to this whole dilemma lies in the wisdom of insecurity, or the wisdom of uncertainty. This means that the search for security and certainty is actually an attachment to
the known. And what's the known? The known is our past. The known is nothing other than the prison of past conditioning. There's no evolution in that absolutely none at all. And when there is no evolution, there is stagnation, entropy, disorder, and decay.

Uncertainty, on the other hand, is the fertile ground of pure creativity and freedom. Uncertainty means stepping into the unknown in every moment of our existence. The unknown is the field of all possibilities, ever fresh, ever new, always open to the creation of new manifestations. Without uncertainty and the unknown, life is just the stale repetition of outworn memories. You become the victim of the past, and your tormentor today is your self left over from yesterday.

Relinquish your attachment to the known, step into the unknown, and you will step into the field of all possibilities. In your willingness to step into the unknown, you will have the wisdom of uncertainty factored in. This means that in every moment of your life, you will have excitement, adventure, mystery. You will experience the fun of life the magic, the celebration, the exhilaration, and the exultation of your own spirit.

Everyday you can look for the excitement of what may occur in the field of all possibilities. When you experience uncertainty, you are on the right path so don't give it up. You don't need to have a complete and rigid idea of what you'll be doing next week or next year, because if you have a very clear idea of what's going to happen and you get rigidly attached to it, then you shut out a whole range of possibilities.

One characteristic of the field of all possibilities is infinite correlation. The field can orchestrate an infinity of space-time events to bring about the outcome that is intended. But when you are attached, your intention gets locked into a rigid mindset and you lose the fluidity, the creativity, and the spontaneity inherent in the field. When you get attached, you freeze your desire from that infinite fluidity and flexibility into a rigid framework, which interferes with the whole process of creation.

The Law of Detachment does not interfere with the Law of Intention and Desire with goal-setting. You still have the intention of going in a certain direction, you still have a goal. However, between point A and point B there are infinite possibilities. With uncertainty factored in, you might change direction in any moment if you find a higher ideal, or if you find something more exciting. You are also less likely to force
solutions on problems, which enables you to stay alert to opportunities.

The Law of Detachment accelerates the whole process of evolution. When you understand this law, you don't feel compelled to force solutions. When you force solutions on problems, you only create new problems. But when you put your attention on the uncertainty, and you witness the uncertainty while you expectantly wait for the solution to emerge out of the chaos and the confusion, then what emerges is something very fabulous and exciting.

This state of alertness your preparedness in the present, in the field of uncertainty meets with your goal and your intention and allows you to seize the opportunity. What's the opportunity? It's contained within every problem that you have in your life. Every single problem that you have in your life is the seed of an opportunity for some greater benefit. Once you have that perception, you open up to a whole range of possibilities and this keeps the mystery, the wonder, the excitement, the adventure
alive.

You can look at every problem you have in your life as an opportunity for some greater benefit. You can stay alert to opportunities by being grounded in the wisdom of uncertainty. When your preparedness meets opportunity, the solution will spontaneously appear.

What comes out of that is often called "good luck." Good luck is nothing but preparedness and opportunity coming together. When the two are mixed together with an alert witnessing of the chaos, a solution emerges that will be of evolutionary benefit to you and to all those that you come into contact with. This is the perfect recipe for success, and it is based on the Law of Detachment.

Applying The Law Of Detachment

I will put the Law of Detachment into effect by making a commitment to take the following steps:

1. Today I will commit myself to detachment. I will allow myself and those around me the freedom to be as they are. I will not rigidly impose my idea of how things should be. I will not force solutions on problems, thereby creating new problems. I will
participate in everything with detached involvement.

2. Today I will factor in uncertainty as an essential ingredient of my experience. In my willingness to accept uncertainty, solutions will spontaneously emerge out of the problem, out of the confusion, disorder, and chaos. The more uncertain things seem to be, the more secure I will feel, because uncertainty is my path to freedom. Through the wisdom of uncertainty, I will find my security.

3. I will step into the field of all possibilities and anticipate the excitement that can occur when I remain open to an infinity of choices. When I step into the field of all possibilities, I will experience all the fun, adventure, magic, and mystery of life.

Summary & Conclusion

The universal mind choreographs everything that is happening in billions of galaxies with elegant precision and unfaltering intelligence. Its intelligence is ultimate and supreme, and it permeates every fiber of existence: from the smallest to the
largest, from the atom to the cosmos. Everything that is alive is an expression of this intelligence. And this intelligence operates through The Seven Spiritual Laws.

If you look at any cell in the human body, you will see through its functioning the expression of these laws. Every cell, whether it's a stomach cell, or a heart cell, or a brain cell, has its birth in the Law of Pure Potentiality. DNA is a perfect example
of pure potentiality; in fact, it is the material expression of pure potentiality. The same DNA existing in every cell expresses itself in different ways in order to fulfill the unique requirements of that particular cell.

Each cell also operates through the Law of Giving. A cell is alive and healthy when it is in a state of balance and equilibrium. This state of equilibrium is one of fulfillment and harmony, but it is maintained by a constant give and take. Each cell gives to and supports every other cell, and in turn is nourished by every other cell. The cell is always in a state of dynamic flow and the flow is never interrupted. In fact, the flow is the very essence of the life of the cell. And only by maintaining this flow of giving is the cell able to receive and thus continue its vibrant existence.

The Law of Karma is exquisitely executed by every cell, because built into its intelligence is the most appropriate and precisely correct response to every situation as it occurs.

The Law of Least Effort is also exquisitely executed by every cell in the body: it does its job with quiet efficiency in the state of restful alertness.

Through the Law of Intention and Desire, every intention of every cell harnesses the infinite organizing power of nature's intelligence. Even a simple intention such as metabolizing a molecule of sugar immediately sets off a symphony of events in the body where precise amounts of hormones have to be secreted at precise moments to convert this molecule of sugar into pure creative energy.

Of course, every cell expresses the Law of Detachment. It is detached from the outcome of its intentions. It doesn't stumble or falter because its behavior is a function of life-centered, present-moment awareness.

Each cell also expresses the Law of Dharma. Each cell must discover its own source, the higher self; it must serve its fellow beings, and express its unique talents. Heart cells, stomach cells, and immune cells all have their source in the higher self, the field of pure potentiality. And because they are directly linked to this cosmic computer, they can express their unique talents with effortless ease and timeless awareness. Only by expressing their unique talents can they maintain both their own integrity and the integrity of the whole body. The internal dialogue of every cell in the human body is, "How can I help? The heart cells want to help the immune cells, the immune cells want to help the stomach and lung cells, and the brain cells are
listening to and helping every other cell. Every cell in the human body has only one function: to help every other cell.

By looking at the behavior of the cells of our own body, we can observe the most extraordinary and efficient expression of The Seven Spiritual Laws. This is the genius of nature's intelligence. These are the thoughts of God the rest are details.

The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success are powerful principles that will enable you to attain self-mastery. If you put your attention on these laws and practice the steps outlined in this book, you will see that you can manifest anything you want all the
affluence, money, and success that you desire. You will also see that your life becomes more joyful and abundant in every way, for these laws are also the spiritual laws of life that make living worthwhile.

There is a natural sequence for the application of these laws in your daily life that may help you to remember them. The Law of Pure Potentiality is experienced through silence, through meditation, through non-judgment, through communion with nature, but it is activated by the Law of Giving. The principle here is to learn to give that which you seek. That's how you activate the Law of Pure Potentiality. If you seek affluence, give affluence; if you seek money, give money; if you seek love, appreciation, and affection, then learn to give love, appreciation, and affection.

Through your actions in the Law of Giving you activate the Law of Karma. You create good karma, and good karma makes everything in life easy. You notice that you don't have to expend a lot of effort to fulfill your desires, which automatically leads to an
understanding of the Law of Least Effort. When everything is easy and effortless, and your desires keep getting fulfilled, you spontaneously begin to understand the Law of Intention and Desire. Fulfilling your desires with effortless ease makes it easy for you to practice the Law of Detachment.

Finally, as you begin to understand a11 the above laws, you begin to focus on your true purpose in life, which leads to the Law of Dharma. Through the use of this law, by expressing your unique talents and fulfilling the needs of your fellow humans, you begin to create whatever you want, whenever you want it. You become carefree and joyful, and your life becomes an expression of unbounded love.

We are travelers on a cosmic journey stardust, swirling and dancing in the eddies and whirlpools of infinity. Life is eternal. But the expressions of life are ephemeral, momentary, transient. Gautama Buddha, the founder of Buddhism, once said,

This existence of ours is as transient as autumn clouds. To watch the birth and death of beings is like looking at the movements of a dance. A lifetime is like a flash of lightning in the sky, Rushing by like a torrent down a steep mountain.

We have stopped for a moment to encounter each other, to meet, to love, to share. This is a precious moment, but it is transient. It is a little parenthesis in eternity. If we share with caring, lightheartedness, and love, we will create abundance and joy for
each other. And then this moment will have been worthwhile.

Thanks to Deepak!

Until next time...
Peter
http://www.peterwink.com/

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Sunday, January 04, 2009

What is a friend?

Hi Everyone,

How do you define a friend?

According to Websters.com, a friend is...

1. a person attached to another by feelings of affection or personal regard.
2. a person who gives assistance; patron; supporter: friends of the Boston Symphony.
3. a person who is on good terms with another; a person who is not hostile: Who goes there? Friend or foe?
4. a member of the same nation, party, etc.
5. (initial capital letter) a member of the Religious Society of Friends; a Quaker.
–verb (used with object)
6. Rare. to befriend.
—Idiom
7. make friends with, to enter into friendly relations with; become a friend to.

I personally don't buy into the scholarly crapola above.

I look at it like this...
  • I've had feelings for many people who are NOT friends!
  • I've had people assist me and people I've assisted that are NOT friends!
  • I've had many people that I've been on good terms with that are NOT friends!
  • I've been a member of many things - NOT one friend to be found!
  • I've worked with thousands of people in my life and did NOT be-friend any!

So what gives here? Why is this?














Maybe it all lies in the fact, that we all have a different definition of a friend.

I think that legendary philosopher, Jim Rohn, said it best...

A friend is a person who you can call if you were locked in a third-world country - that would do everything it takes to rescue you. They would fly where they had to fly. Talk to who they had to talk to. Scheme and keep scheming. Pay what they have to pay. And stay there until they get the job done - no matter what (or how high) the cost. Now that is a friend!

A friend is NOT necessarily...
- A person in your family you sees on occasion - when it is convenient!
- One of your idiot co-workers who sucks up to you!
- Someone who calls you once or twice a year!
- Your boss or other superior who pretends to do things for you!

I like the concept of having a friend. Luckily i have two that fall into this definition - you may not be so lucky or maybe your luckier. I don't know or care. You're issue not mine.

I wrote this blog because I'm sick of hearing people talking about how many friends they have and fooling themselves. I'm also sick of all the naive people who are so disappointed when they're so-called friends abandon them when they really need something. Or their friends all disappear when the going gets tough.

Why does this seem to happen all the time?

Get a clue my friend - they're not likely a real friend!

Before you judge me - think real hard about what I'm saying.

Also, in closing...

If you expect someone to be a friend - you must also be one.

Until next time...
Peter
http://www.peterwink.com/

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Thursday, December 18, 2008

New releases from Peter Wink and Gildan Media coming soon!

Hi Everyone,

Fun stuff happening!




In January 2009, Gildan Media is releasing my new audio presentation of "Negotiate Your Way to Riches" on iTunes and Audible. The book was fully updated and recorded in October/November 2008. You're going to love it!

In February 2009, Gildan Media is releasing my new audio presentation of "Buying Secrets Retailers DON'T Want You to Know About" on iTunes and Audible. The book is a bestselling e-book and was recorded in November/December 2008. You're going to love it also!

If that's not enough...

In March 2009, Gildan Media is releasing my new audio presentation of "The Science of Being Well" on iTunes and Audible. And you guessed it ---- you're going to love this one too!

Thank God I'm not a consultant anymore! :-)

Ok...I'm bored and need to do some work now.

Until next time...
Peter
http://www.peterwink.com/

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Saturday, November 22, 2008

Do you know Marc David - food genius!

Hi Everyone,

As you may know, I'm really into working out and I'm also a health & nutrition fanatic.

That said, I need to introduce you to Marc David.






Marc David is the Founder and Director of The Institute for the Psychology of Eating and the author of The Slow Down Diet: Eating for Pleasure, Energy, and Weight Loss, and Nourishing Wisdom: A Mind-Body Approach to Nutrition and Well Being. A nationally recognized teacher, speaker and corporate consultant, Marc presents his expertise in nutritional medicine, the psychology of eating, and the science of yoga in a fresh and innovative way. His humorous, engaging, and informative speaking style have made him a popular and well loved presenter and his non-dogmatic approach to nutrition appeals to a wide audience of eaters who are looking for positive, inspiring, and innovative messages about food and metabolism.

His new Nightingale-Conant program called Mind/Body Nutrition is one of the best programs on health and nutrition on the planet.



















This program is full of excellent insights.

For instance, did you know if you eat under stress, your digestive system shuts down automatically?

Did you know that the slower you eat, the more nutritional value you'll get from food?

Did you know there are ways to easily increase calorie burning?

Mind/Body Nutrition will take your focus off the food on your plate and tune it in to the "brain in your belly"- the true control center of your metabolic processes, which holds the key to weight loss without deprivation, and health and well-being without sacrifice. You'll discover:

• The one simple change you can make that will immediately change your body for the better

• The 12 most important nutritional facts (that aren't what you think)

• The secret to the famed "French paradox"

• The emotion that virtually shuts down the metabolic process

• The 3 levels of diet, and how to tell what your body needs at different times

• Nutritional myths we've all been raised on … SHATTERED

• The 3 levels of diet, and how to tell what your body needs at different times

• The 5 categories of metabolically limiting beliefs

• The "Gut Wisdom Inventory"

• 5 nutritional lifestyles and how to identify your type

• And much, much more…

You can get it here.

Ok...I'm bored and need to do get ready to go into the recording studio now.

Until next time...
Peter
http://www.peterwink.com/

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Sunday, November 02, 2008

Check this out!

Hi Everyone,













I'm in a big hurry and don't feel much like writing this blog.

But...

I wanted to recommend a great book called...The 48 Laws of Power!



















The laws cull their principles from many great schemers--and scheming instructors--throughout history, from Sun-Tzu to Talleyrand, from Casanova to con man Yellow Kid Weil. They are straightforward in their amoral simplicity: "Get others to do the work for you, but always take the credit," or "Discover each man's thumbscrew." Each chapter provides examples of the consequences of observance or transgression of the law, along with "keys to power," potential "reversals" (where the converse of the law might also be useful), and a single paragraph cleverly laid out to suggest an image (such as the aforementioned thumbscrew); the margins are filled with illustrative quotations. Practitioners of one-upmanship have been given a new, comprehensive training manual, as up-to-date as it is timeless.

Get it today here.

Ok...I'm bored and need to do something else now and I gotta run!

Until next time...
Peter
http://www.peterwink.com/

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Sunday, October 19, 2008

Next time...

Hi Everyone,

You may not know it but I have an affinity for watches. All kinds!

I do believe they're the new fashion statement - kind of like ties were back in the 80s and early 90s.

I'm constantly changing batteries and always wondering which watch to wear on any particular day. What makes me most crazy, is that I can never tell which watch has the right time on it.

I found the solution...



If you want to know the official time simply go here.

Ok...I'm bored and need to do something else now and I gotta run!

Until next time...
Peter
http://www.peterwink.com/

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Friday, October 03, 2008

To hell with fear!

Hi Everyone,

I want to introduce you to arguably my favorite book ever...Thick Face, Black Heart by legendary Asian strategist Chin-ning Chu.










Chin-ning Chu will show you how to apply ancient Chinese military wisdom to the competitive world of business today. And I'm not talking softsoap bullcrap. She discusses just what it takes to become a detached warrior in business and life!

One of my favorite sections is about fear and two of her quotes hit me right between the eyes...
- "Fear is to a man's soul as a drop of poison is to a well of springwater"
- "Fear is never so fearful once you look it in the eyes"
- Don't give your fear too much importance. An ignored guest often leaves unannounced.

And my favorite...

"If you are NOT concerned about the outcome of a circumstance, you will experience no fear. Whatever the outcome will be, will be, whether you fear it or not"

Now that's bank my friend!

Take action and buy the book here right now - you'll love it!

Other great books I'm reading...
- Playing to Win: Jerry Jones and the Dallas Cowboys
- Static Contraction Training
- The Fame Formula

Other news...
- I just signed a multi-recording deal for my books with Gildan Media and start recording tomorrow. All will be released on iTunes next January!

Also, working on a new book that will knock your socks off! By far the best book I've ever written.

Ok...I'm bored and need to do something else now and I gotta run!

Until next time...
Peter
http://www.peterwink.com/

PS...To get a copy of "Buying Secrets Retailers DON'T Want You to Know About" - please click here.

PPS...To get a copy of my bestselling book "Negotiate Your Way to Riches" - please click here.

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Friday, September 12, 2008

Finally a pragmatic book on becoming wealthy!

Hi Everyone,



















I'm loving the book "How to Get Rich" by Felix Dennis.












This is not your usual get-rich-quick manual. Though Dennis, a poet (When Jack Sued Jill: Nursery Rhymes for Modern Times) and the founder of a publishing empire (including Maxim magazine), wants to help the reader rank at least among the lesser rich (equal to a net worth of $30 million–$80 million by his definition), he isn't himself motivated by money. With his own fortune estimated at between $400 million and $900 million, he doesn't have to be. Instead, Dennis wants to demystify the money-getting process, and his straight-talking, honest advice makes a refreshing change in this oversaturated field. Using humorous examples from his own business life, Dennis's advice, from The Five Most Common Start-Up Errors to The Power of Focus, might sound like conventional fare, but delivered in his signature bawdy, British style, it's altogether more entertaining—and more practical. Dennis highlights the right strategies and mindset to get readers their millions, but he won't air-brush his story or soften the bitter truth along the way. As he says, when it comes to acquiring wealth, being a bit of a shit helps.

BTW...watch for the feature article on me in the new issue of Succeed Magazine!

Gotta run!

Until next time...
Peter
http://www.peterwink.com/

PS...To get a copy of "Buying Secrets Retailers DON'T Want You to Know About" - please click here.

PPS...To get a copy of my bestselling book "Negotiate Your Way to Riches" - please click here.

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Wednesday, August 20, 2008

A must for Van Halen fans!

Hi Everyone,



















I'm loving the book "Everybody Wants Some" - The Van Halen Saga.















This is a must-read for anyone who likes Van Halen, electric guitar and/or classic rock as much as I do.

You may not know it but I was a percussionist and singer in college!

Get it here!

BTW...watch for the feature article on me in the new issue of Succeed Magazine!

Gotta run!

Until next time...
Peter
http://www.peterwink.com/

PS...To get a copy of "Buying Secrets Retailers DON'T Want You to Know About" - please click here.

PPS...To get a copy of my bestselling book "Negotiate Your Way to Riches" - please click here.

PPPS...To get a copy of my bestselling audio CD program "Negotiate Your Way to Riches" please click here!

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Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Hi Everyone,



















I'm loving the book "Overachievement."















This is a must-read for anyone who really wants to get anything done other than over-prepare, over-analyze, and ultimately do nothing.

Get it here.

BTW...watch for the feature article on me in the new issue of Succeed Magazine!

Gotta run!

Until next time...
Peter
http://www.peterwink.com/

PS...To get a copy of "Buying Secrets Retailers DON'T Want You to Know About" - please click here.

PPS...To get a copy of my bestselling book "Negotiate Your Way to Riches" - please click here.

PPPS...To get a copy of my bestselling audio CD program "Negotiate Your Way to Riches" please click here!

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Wednesday, August 06, 2008

Peter Wink and Dr. Joe Vitale in the Studio!

Hi Everyone,



















Check out a great video of me and Dr. Joe Vitale live in the studio by clicking here!

Me and Joe just spent three fun days together in Chicago going to meetings, taping infomercials, and sharing Mediterranean food here at my house. Fun stuff. Pictures to come.

BTW...watch for the feature article on me in the new issue of Succeed Magazine!

Gotta run!

Until next time...
Peter
http://www.peterwink.com/

PS...To get a copy of "Buying Secrets Retailers DON'T Want You to Know About" - please click here.

PPS...To get a copy of my bestselling book "Negotiate Your Way to Riches" - please click here.

PPPS...To get a copy of my bestselling audio CD program "Negotiate Your Way to Riches" please click here!

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Saturday, July 26, 2008

How to get started writing a book!

Hi Everyone,



















As most of you know, I'm a bestselling author, having written several books quickly. I've also been an executive in the self-help publishing world for one hell of a long time.

So...

Here is my expert (I really hate that word) advice for getting started as an author...

1. Pick a topic
2. Write an ad for the book to see if it's salable
3. Investigate where the market resides so you can sell your work
4. Get off your butt and write the darn thing
5. Find someone like a celebrity with an audience, who can help you spread the word
6. Market like crazy.

Sound simplistic? Maybe. It is really that easy.

Don't over-complicate or over-think the process.

The big thing is getting started!

BTW...watch for the feature article on me in the new issue of Succeed Magazine!

Gotta run!

Until next time...
Peter
http://www.peterwink.com/

PS...To get a copy of "Buying Secrets Retailers DON'T Want You to Know About" - please click here.

PPS...To get a copy of my bestselling book "Negotiate Your Way to Riches" - please click here.

PPPS...To get a copy of my bestselling audio CD program "Negotiate Your Way to Riches" please click here!

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Saturday, July 12, 2008

How to become a skinny bitch!

Hi Everyone,

My wife Stephanie turned me on to a bitchin' book called "Skinny Bitch."



















It's full of great information on how to lose weight eating right and making logical, not faddish, lifestyle and food changes. It also discusses the disgusting meat and dairy industries and their destruction and literal conscious torture of innocent animals.

In fact...

There's a great review you can read here. Saves me the trouble of sitting here writing a complete review.

The title is great and targets women. Still...everything is relevant to men also. If you're title or gender sensitive (and if you are I feel sorry for you) change it and all the references the book contains to "Skinny Ass." The book is written with a cocky reassured style, containing some occasional profanity (which is always hot coming from women) and other well-received to-the-point information.

Don't waste time thinking about it. Click here and buy it!



















Also make sure and click here and buy my new book "Buying Secrets Retailers DON'T Want You to Know About."

Oh...I thought I'd add a couple of pictures of me and Stephanie during a recent conversation with Batmobile and movie car creator George Barris. We discussed the Batmobile, K.I.T.T. from the TV show Knight Rider, and more.































Ok...you know what to do, so do it now!

Gotta run!

Until next time...
Peter
http://www.peterwink.com/

PS...To get a copy of "Buying Secrets Retailers DON'T Want You to Know About" - please click here.

PPS...To get a copy of my bestselling book "Negotiate Your Way to Riches" - please click here.

PPPS...To get a copy of my bestselling audio CD program "Negotiate Your Way to Riches" please click here!

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Saturday, July 05, 2008

To naysayers...

Hi Everyone,

As most of you know, I'm brash, I'm to the point, I take no prisoners, and tell it like it is. OR...at least the way I see it. One person even said, "I'm too Chicago." Which by the way is of the highest compliment. Whether you like me or hate me - I'm not going away!

Today, I choose to get on my egg crate and address naysayers.

To those of you who choose to put others down, kill people's dreams, and otherwise choose to make yourselves feel better at other's expense, listen up.

First of all your remarks do nothing to further life or advance people so you're wasting your time in the big picture. I will guarantee you are a nothing, doing nothing, helping nothing, advancing nothing - in other words...A NOTHING! Did you look in the mirror lately?

Why not spend your time encouraging others and possibly getting off your lazy rear and doing something more productive than talking about people to others. In the end, I can guarantee whoever your talking to about others is sick of listening to you and is just being polite - anxiously awaiting to hang up with you or get as far away as possible.

Whenever someone puts someone down to me - I know that chances are they're talking about me to others. It is inevitable. If I thought otherwise, I'd be a jackass. To which I'm not.

Case in point...

I can still remember a high school English teacher that tried to convince me I was functionally illiterate. We'll shortly after that statement was made, I graduated Western Illinois University on the National Deans List, became a business executive, and am now a successful author with multiple books selling.










Including my new one "Buying Secrets Retailers DON'T Want You to Know About!"

You can get it here!

I also want to address those ultra-sensitive people out there.

The next time someone supposedly hurts your feelings or says something you do not like. Address them head on! Not through others. And in the words of Frank Barone (Everybody Loves Raymond), "Get off your pity-pot and suck it up Nancy." Don't use others to fight your battles. If it is not important enough to address yourself - it obviously means it is not very important to really address, you're just trying to influence someone else to think a certain way. Which basically means your a sneaky, manipulating loser.

Enough about these types of people, I have more important things to worry about. Like writing more books and working my tail off to help people instead of putting them down.

Gotta run!

Until next time...
Peter
http://www.peterwink.com/

PS...To get a copy of "Buying Secrets Retailers DON'T Want You to Know About" - please click here.

PPS...To get a copy of my bestselling book "Negotiate Your Way to Riches" - please click here.

PPPS...To get a copy of my bestselling audio CD program "Negotiate Your Way to Riches" please click here!

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Saturday, June 14, 2008

Secrets of the millionaire mind revealed!

Hi Everyone,

I've been reading a real great book called "Secrets of the Millionaire Mind" by T. Harv Eker.















This book is a real eye-opener about how the rich think compared to the lower and middle class.

One of my favorite passes from this book of literary genius is...

"There's nothing wrong with getting a steady paycheck, unless it interferes with your ability to earn what you're worth. There's the rub. It usually does."

Another great passage...

"Rich people act in spite of fear. Poor people let fear stop them."

There's so much more detail in this book, I can't do it justice. All I can say is that if you're not wealthy - BUY IT!

You can purchase this gem here.

Gotta run!

Until next time...
Peter
http://www.peterwink.com/

PS...To get a copy of my bestselling book "Negotiate Your Way to Riches" - please click here.

PPS...To get a copy of my bestselling audio CD program "Negotiate Your Way to Riches" please click here!

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